23 Jul 2012
Posted by Will Peach 
Dear Sexpat,
I admire you; I really do. You are a unique creature, the kind who doesn’t care about the opinions of others. A person who proceeds based on your own set of rules – far from the puritanical grip of larger society.
Maybe the mere mortal envies your cojones, after all isn’t my brand centred on chucking convention?
On that level, this is where you and I are equal, which is why I feel emboldened to speak to you as a peer.
First, we should start with who you are.
The Urban Dictionary defines you as such:
“A sexpat is one who participates in tourism with the express intention of having sex.”
Naturally we should really distinguish you between those young, backpacking males who stumble into a romp with a local hottie. Typically under the influence of alcohol and loose inhibitions.
No, you are the guy who actively seeks out the hostess bars on Pat Pong in Bangkok or hand picks two or three women from pictures tacked to a piece of hastily cut cardboard, serrated at the edges, it’s existence brought to your attention by a compact Philippine man who stopped you on the sooty, humid streets of Manila.
You hunger for sex, like all of us, but the confines of sex for you involve an exchange of bodily fluids for money.
I’m sorry, that sounds crude, doesn’t it? Because in truth, in travel, lines become blurred. That petite, cute Cambodian girl flashed her sparkling eyes and flirty smile. She makes you feel special and important, by asking all about you, tinkling with laughter at your attempts at humor, slyly grazing her hand across your thigh. She thinks you are the most fascinating person in the entire room and that sends your head spinning, dizzy with an injection of self-worth. You might buy all the drinks and food, maybe even spring for a hotel suite afterwards, and of course, give her a few dollars for cab fare, because that’s only gentlemanly. It’s all so subtle, pervasive and easy to ignore, because she lit you up on the inside.
With that melted centre and newly discovered sexual freedom, you forge ahead. Your once blinded eyes have flown open, like a pair of shutters in a damp, musty house – for now all you see are beautiful girls, ones who clamour to bed you with very little effort on your part. A smorgasbord – a secret place where your innermost desires can play out in reality.
Soon, you convince yourself of the economic benefits you reap on these third-world dwellers. Aren’t you uplifting their lives? Helping these women support their impoverished families? Landing yourself a gorgeous, Thai girlfriend with a banging bod? Yes! Oh yes!
You continue to build this house of cards ignoring the statistics. The United Nations estimated in 2008 that 12.5 million women and children were trafficked from 127 countries to 137 countries. Human trafficking and sexual exploitation is defined as ‘physical coercion, deception and bondage through forced debt’. Could be your ‘girlfriend’ was promised domestic work and arrived in Brazil only to be told she’d be doing most of the work on her back or knees.
Ah, but there’s that niggly thing called ‘choice’. Between working at a Nike factory for $54 a month or earning a $100 per night, the choice is clear. Sexual trafficking is a messy, violent criminal act and prostitution is another. In your mind, there’s a large difference between the two. Save the Children view these definitions as murky .. who’s getting forced, who’s not? Does she enjoy it or doesn’t she? In the end, most governments categorize prostitution as a form of violence against women.
It’s hard to imagine, because you don’t treat your girls badly. You shower them with affection. They make you feel special and deep in your gut, you convince yourself they enjoy the attention, not just the monetary gain. They like you.
Everyone has a hopping good time.
You shouldn’t feel shame about your libido, my friend. Because no one should feel ashamed about their sexual desires.
So, let me come down a few notches and speak in a language you’ll understand. Say there are two opposing football teams. Let’s call one of them the Angels. The Angels play above board. They are hard workers and follow regulations and strategize the game to win. Players are treated fairly and paid well. The Angels are a clean team. The other team, the Blackhearts, are motherfuckers. They juice up on steroids, grease officials and use physical intimidation to neutralize their opponents. Management recruit players with coercion or a promise of a lucrative career, when in fact it’s not the case. Their tenure with the team is laced with fear or lack of choice due to financial stress. In essence, they are coated in dirty tactics.
Which team do you support? Where do you put your money?
Here’s the truth, friend, what you’re supporting financially and morally are the Blackhearts. An organization of dubious people, who exploit, sometimes abuse, drug, or kill other human beings.
Of course not all prostitution establishments are like this. But, which ones are reputable and how do you measure if the girls are treated badly and which ones are not?
The sick and awful truth is: you don’t know.
That’s just blind consumerism. That’s pure stupidity. That’s like supporting the clubbing of seals. Wearing fur, because it’s fluffy, soft and feels yummy on your skin. Never mind the amount of foxes who had to die for your coat.
Never mind about the other women you claim to not know about who had no choice, felt frightened, pressure or worse. Who arrive to work without job security, benefits, fairness or a regulatory body behind them. What they live on is phoney love, paper promises and a fleeting caress from the likes of you.
Shame on you. Not for enjoying sex, but for pain, hurt and potential harm to the other half of the human race whom you declare to love so much. Womanhood.
About the Author: Jeannie Mark
Jeannie Mark is a mid-lifer who sold all her earthly possessions and set off for a life of full-time travel in June 2010. Having just completed the infamous running with the bulls in Pamplona, Jeannie is now considering her next great adventure. Nomadic Chick, her home on the web, is all about putting the gypsy back into travel and life. Check her out on Facebook and Twitter for more.
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39 Comments
Excellent article Jeannie!! PERFECTLY executed. +1 for the Angels! ha
I love how you get in the minds of the sexpats. You almost convinced me of how innocent it could be. Almost.
I loved how this article follows up the other loaded controversial article about the anonymous sexpat.. and then some murmur in the comments that someone should do a followup post preferably a woman.. Not sure if you were mentioned or volunteered to be that someone, but you so perfectly fit the bill. And I loved your comment from that previous article too.
Im not so sure about what is either excellent or well executed. Seems to me it is an ill informed castigation of sexpats, the sex work and workers and human trafficking without understanding thee nuances of any of them not the differences between them.
Simply put, your argument is emotional and sensational and based on impressions rather than facts.
well said Thomas – sometimes I wonder if people who write stuff like this just do it because they know it will get them a reaction. Clueless people love wasting their time and got nothing better to do probably because their life sucks and want to take it out on the rest of us who are enjoying every day. LOL
Well written article about worldwide prostitution but not sure what it has to do with this website. Sexpats are also called DOM’s ( dirty old men or dumb old men) although they are not all old but i don’t think any of the readers fit that profile.
@Neil What does it NOT have to do with this website? If it expresses an intelligent and well-thought out opinion and relates to sex overseas it’s in-fitting.
Can I ask what your vision of this site is apart from kneeling to “pick-up/flag collectors” which are now, quite frankly, tiring us out?
Well, this is as I assume a site for backpackers/travelers who (want to) experience sex on the road. I’m not saying this is a bad article or that i don’t agree with the content of it.
it would seem like your not really saying much at all??? @neil skywalker
You know Jeanie, I loved your article and agree.
It’s much better to go on the side of caution even if it seems OK at the time. As you so rightly pointed out, a person can’t know what’s going on behind the scenes.
‘However’ Jeanie, what really saddened me was when I read your author profile at the bottom.
You take the moral high-ground well… but ‘running with the bulls”!?
Seems you care about womanhood yet couldn’t give a damn about another weaker species, ‘animals’. Perhaps in your next article you might like to try and justify that one. What is essentially the celebration of the coming slaughter of innocent animals for the pleasure of sick individuals entertainment… oh but it’s not you that kills them I know.
I’m sure you justify it to yourself. I mean, you are quite obviously proud of it, ironically the same way as perhaps some ‘sexpats’ are proud of their manly pursuits.
Hypocrisy is truly an interesting human foible… it’s so bad they can’t even see essentially the same characteristic in themselves that they criticise others for.
Weak is weak and exploitation of all forms of it is one and the same.
You had me at ‘you convince yourself of the economic benefits you reap on these third-world dwellers’… and lost me at ‘completed the infamous running with the bulls in Pamplona’
There are no weaker and more helpless things on this Earth than children and animals.
But your proud aren’t you. You really dropped the ball when playing for the Blackhearts didn’t you Jeanie. Sad.
Moral high ground aside, if you’re going to address me, at least spell my name right, would ya? It’s two n’s, not one.
I never said I don’t support sex workers or the field of prostitution. I can’t support something that isn’t regulated properly and that yes – most of the time victimizes women. No fair play. Fair pay. Or steady benefits (health or monetary) across the board. Would you work somewhere where potential beatings or rape is a possibility? I highly doubt it.
I did running of the bulls for two reasons: my interest in the “other” of another culture and the fact that someone on FB said it is illegal for women to run. So, yes, that comment pissed me off, so I went there to see how this running of the bulls thing works for women or not works.
The bulls in Pamplona are used for bullfighting every night at Plaza del Toros after they run in the mornings. I never denied that, in fact I wrote about it: http://girlsrunwithbulls.com/where-do-the-bulls-go-bullfighting/.
Bullfighting and San Fermin has been rooted in Spanish culture for centuries and believe it or not, do have some rituals and rules — down to where/how the bulls are bred right to when the bull faces the matador in the ring. As soon as the drunk Aussies leave the first weekend of San Fermin, it becomes a very family oriented and Spanish fiesta. Both the running part and the bullfights. After the bullfights, the meat is sold (or donated) to restaurants and consumed. You can’t just capture some cow on the street, pump it full of drugs and force it to charge a matador.
If you want to compare the two practices, let’s. As stated by many experts who study prostitution, there are no rules, no regulations, nothing in place for these women. There’s no consistency across continents (law-making). It’s quite common to capture a woman, pump her full of drugs and make her face one or many men in a bedchamber.
Does that make both practices ultimately right? I’d say not. Before you cast stones, examine yourself as well, people are not black and white. You might recycle, but got lazy one day and took that plastic bag offered to you at the grocery store. Just that once. Maybe you slept with some chick, promised to call her and never did. Does that make you an asshole? No.
Nor does it make me an asshole because I ran with the bulls. You pick your battles; I pick mine. I think we can all agree on that point.
P.S: You’d be surprised to know what products (I’m sure some of them you and I use) contain animal ingredients: http://www.dummies.com/how-to/content/hidden-animal-ingredients-in-foods.html. Until either of us is willing to give them all up, I’d say hypocrisy is something we’re in together.
“”Bullfighting and San Fermin has been rooted in Spanish culture for centuries and believe it or not, do have some rituals and rules — down to where/how the bulls are bred right to when the bull faces the matador in the ring. As soon as the drunk Aussies leave the first weekend of San Fermin, it becomes a very family oriented and Spanish fiesta. Both the running part and the bullfights. After the bullfights, the meat is sold (or donated) to restaurants and consumed. You can’t just capture some cow on the street, pump it full of drugs and force it to charge a matador.”"
It’s funny how you seem to forget the brutal slaughter of an innocent animal in this paragraph. Just because it’s there for hundreds of years doesn’t make it right.
Anonymous, I already stated neither situation is ideal, didn’t I? Women being trafficked, beaten, killed or bulls dying in the bullring. It’s been acknowledged, but If you have to drive it home AGAIN to nominate yourself the finger pointer, feel free.
Many Spaniards don’t agree with the practice and likely within 10 years bullfighting will end, but prostitution has been going strong for thousands of years, brings in billions of dollars and will continue full steam ahead. Legislation to end bullfighting is already in motion, but there’s little to regulate prostitution effectively right now.
So, riding your high horse and distracting fromt the point of this post, won’t change that fact.
John sounds to me like you scoured the authors bio to find something / anything to take the moral high-ground on. Whether or not the running with the bulls is acceptable or not is neither here nor there when it comes to this article.
Personally I’d prefer to participate in the ‘Running of the Nudes’
It says running with the bulls right under the article and on the front page of her website. John wasn’t digging for anything. It was just right there. And he’s right. Animal abuse for entertainment is sickening.
There are no hostess bars on Khao San road.
Don’t forget all the middle aged women with 20 something black guys. I have witnessed this myself Jamaica . Women also pay for sex
Not all guys want prostitutes but if you are travelling alone like I do, you will get attention from hookers, I have had several prostitutes kiss me, grope my penis and run hands over my body. They have also been aggressive when I say no, they demand money from me, kicked sand in my face. Who is the victim of this?
Hey Jeannie,
Great article and well written.
Similar to Gary’s point, however, I’d like to point out to readers that they’re are tons of female sexpats, too. Last year, I was in Gambia with my parents and the place was crawling with old white women ‘hiring’ locals guys on the breadline. However, it is true that 90% of sexpats are male and I agree with your reasoning. Personally, I have never paid for sex in my life (and don’t intent to), but I often wonder…
Would you rather be old, celibate, and lonely, with the slight satisfaction of obeying societal norms, or an old sexpat getting laid and having a good time, but ultimately contributing to the problem and forced to endure some finger-wagging from society?
I don’t condone prostitution whatsoever, but if were talking about ‘the big picture’, one could also argue that prostitution bring massive economic benefits to country and ultimately helps aid development and the transfer of wealth from richer countries to poorer countries (granted it’s at the expense of human rights).
As I mentioned, I feel the same as you, but to add more greyness to the morality debate and give you something to think about, consider this:
What is right?
In an environment with where resources are scarce, the only thing that’s ‘right’ is survival. When you have to survive, anything that aids that’s survival becomes ‘right’. ‘Moral’ imperatives go out the window. Murder, theft, prostitution – all become justified or ‘right’ if they’re required for survival.
In the West, we espouse an ‘ethical’ paradigm that has been shaped by our environment: one where resources (cash and food) are in abundance. We have welfare and are lucky enough to even travel the world. However, our version of what’s right and wrong is relativistic, not absolute. In environment where people fight for resources, moral arguments against selling sex are irrelevant.
Aside from that rant, great writing! You have a flair for it.
Mark
Great piece Jeannie.
Sex tourism was one thing that really frustrated me when I was in SE Asia and I got into quite a few arguments with sex tourists who claimed they were doing good by supporting the economy. While you can’t deny that sex tourism brings a lot of money into struggling countries, I don’t think most of these guys really gave a shit. I met one sex tourist who complained about everything being expensive and ate a lot of his meals at MacDonalds.
If sex tourists really wanted to support the economies of developing countries, they could patronise local businesses and donate money to charity. It really is that simple.
lol seriously? the guy just ate at mcdonalds and complained everything was expensive? i wonder what itd be like if he went to somewhere ‘expensive’ like the UK or Australia or something. that’s no way to spend a holiday! but it takes all kinds doesn’t it – some people eat badly to support their nasty habits (eg not eating because they want the latest fashionable item).
Why would you go to thee trouble of getting into arguments with anyone about what they chose to do while on vacation?
Surely it is none of your business.
Very well written!
But… I’ve gotta disagree here. I’ve got something coming along tomorrow which might interest you. An argument for prostitution.
It’s one thing to bemoan sex tourists, and the problems of prostitution, but if we tried to outlaw everything that wasn’t perfect, we’d have nothing left. Why is it that no one sees abusive husbands and says that we get rid of marriage? What about the problems that alcohol causes, yet it’s legal, while marijuana, which probably causes far less problems than alcohol is illegal?
Alcohol is a good one. By your argument, anyone who drinks alcohol is indirectly responsible for industry that thrives of alcoholics. Ditto for smokers. Both alcohol and cigarettes cause huge problems. Does this mean that recreational users are responsible for the actions of people who have no self-control?
By your argument, it does.
And this is interesting, because backpackers (the main TSL audience, right?), love to drink alcohol.
What I’m trying to say is that whenever you try to take the moral high ground, you’ll come out a hypocrite, whether it’s because you ran with the bulls, drink alcohol, drive cars (which allow drunk drivers to kill people), and so on.
A much more ethical decision would be to create value. Taking the moral high ground creates no value. At least sex tourists are creating $50 (or whatever) worth of value every time they do the deed.
While you’re article is well written, it didn’t do anything to solve the problem.
” There are no hostess bars on Khao San road.”
This error is Not surprising.
Notice how “my morality is better than yours” articles like this one are always written by women — women who’ve never been in that profession and know almost nothing about it.
Saying that the young women, and men (by the way!), who as ADULTS, freely CHOOSE this profession, are all “trafficked” and somehow “coerced” into this career, is a flat out lie.
Everyone — and I mean Everyone — used to equate gays with “child molesters”. It’s obvious now, that those were lies. lies perpetuated by the fearful and ignorant.
OBVIOUSLY, the author has never personally been on EITHER side of such a transaction, IN REAL LIFE, and is only parroting what she’s read, written by other women ignorant about the subject.
It’s irresponsible, to say the least, to pretend to be a journalist, when the ONLY knowledge or research you’ve ever done on a subject is to read items written by other ignorant women. It’s 100% speculation and imagination.
Try working as a prostitute, as I do. Then maybe you’ll have a bit of credibility.
Try hiring some prostitutes when you travel, as I do. Maybe then you could at least HAVE ONE CONVERSATION with these men and women who’ve chosen this job, and then maybe your opinions will have some credibility.
Until then, listen to people WHO ARE ACTUALLY IN THE BUSINESS, and learn something.
Hi @GayTouri,
The author didn’t say that everyone in the industry was a trafficking victim…just that there’s no way to know and by participating in this industry, people should think about the harm they are doing. She’s not claiming to have an insider perspective. She’s just sharing the very real facts about trafficking – that it happens, a lot, that you can’t know who is or isn’t, and that by participating in sex tourism, Johns may be contributing to violence against women.
I, too, have not been on either end of this kind of transaction, but I DO know women who have. And their stories are often heartbreaking. It’s not everyone, but it is some people – mostly women and children. Just ask survivors like Somaly Mam.
Not every prostitute is in it by choice. And the ones that aren’t often can’t or won’t share that information with a John. That’s the problem here.
And….
Are ALL Women “Money Girls”?
On television, in movies, and in real life all around us… we hear women of all ages telling us what they’re looking for in a man: He must have money, be successful, have assets, security, a great high paying career, etc., etc.
They make it very clear. Almost Nothing else matters. Nothing else comes close to being as important as what they care about most: Money.
And they don’t try to hide this fact at all. It’s very socially acceptable among females to laugh and joke about it. But at the same time, they make it very clear that they’re SERIOUS. “How could you date a butcher?” Or the looks they give each other as they say, “He’s a stockbroker.” Or, “He’s a waiter.” As if one couldn’t be better, and the other couldn’t be worse.
These women are looking to market themselves to the man with the most money. Clearly. And they don’t hide it. They seem proud of how clever they are, in fact.
These are the SAME women who would say that prostitutes are disgusting, filthy, shameful horrible human beings.
I say: These women are among the biggest hypocrites on Earth.
They are “money girls” EXACTLY THE SAME as Thai young ladies in a Bangkok brothel.
Whenever I hear women talking like this, I’m going to call them what they are…. “money girls”.
Just be honest about it.
And don’t judge others.
Hear, hear.
Hypocrisy is the biggest crime of all.
How much time have you spent in Bangkok? You obviously have no clue about prostitution in Thailand, definitely not enough to write this article, if you talk about sexpats and hostess bars on KSR.
Sorry y’all, that line about Khao San was meant to be changed, but didn’t in the editing process. That one slipped through my fingers. From my research, the heavy sex trade areas in Bangkok are Soi Cowboy, Nana Plaza and Pat Pong. I’ll get Will and company to change that.
Ta!
It was meant to be changed? Why would you write it at all? You made up a fact, wrote it with the intention of using it and then either a)left it in there hoping no one would notice and now they have you have fabricated another fact. The one that says it was meant to be changed in the editing process. Or b)…. umm, im struggling here
Gaytouri knows his stuff, great writing dude.
Fascinating read and some amazing responses. GayTouri’s replies were particularly interesting to read.
I don’t know where I stand on this. I’m definitely not pro sex-trafficking, but I also don’t feel that people who use prostitutes (or are prostitutes) should be vilified as horrible human beings.
Hello Jeannie,
I can feel that your criticism of sexpats mostly comes form your own sexual frustration. Since you’re my type, I could do you really well, if you like. Just buy me a beer or two and I’m yours for the night
I precise that I’m a sexpat in my early 30s and good looking, not FOBU (fat bald old ugly). lol. Just let me know.
Running with the bulls/bullfighting, you use the metaphor: “That’s like supporting the clubbing of seals. Wearing fur, because it’s fluffy, soft and feels yummy on your skin. Never mind the amount of foxes who had to die for your coat.” but you chose to participate in an event where animals were literaly tortured for your entertainment.
I don’t know if the previous comments were just picking on this as hypocrisy to be argumentative, but I am actually disgusted, and as you’ve brought the high horse I feel free to tell you so.
In the comments you justify that you did this because of “interest in the ‘other’ of another culture and the fact that someone on FB said it is illegal for women to run” … now we just need one of your informed FB buddies to tell you a woman can’t be a “sexpat” and this soapbox will be all but forgotten apparently.
Now I’m not a sexpat, but I don’t think you are actually talking to them at all in this article. Lets see, you’re not talking to the young louts that apparently get a free pass in your book because they drink to much, and your not talking to the hard, indifferent, women hating old codgers that literally wouldn’t give a toss what you feel is ethical (I think we know this stereotype of a sexpat – I’ve met one or two myself), who are you talking to?
Now, I’m being facetious, plainly this open letter was written of a straw man, which unfortunately renders it rather toothless as the only real audience are not the people you wanted to address in the first place.
You are not changing the world through creative writing, nor by deliberately pandering to your actual audience.
Here’s a gut wrenching story of a women’s suffering for a Thai Ping Pong show -
http://pulitzercenter.org/blog/untold-stories/price-sexual-torture-usd-181month
Let’s forget “sexpats” and focus on the obvious readship of this site, it’s travellers just like you that go to the Thai Ping Pong shows – the same reasons you when to the running of the bulls, for the otherness and spectacle and experience. You don’t get a free pass.
bravo, well played, terima kasih, good innings, jolly good and all that…
im not sure this site would allow me to post my opinion of jeannie after this article but your post pretty much sums it up….
I have read all of the articles and comments on this blog, and have to say, i often at times runaway from getting into a converstion, or discussions on these issues, because no matter what yourstance is on these issues are! We never really want look at the real issue. We like to argue about morality or talk about political stances etc, but ignore the bottom line! Its simple! the truth is, we as human beings have a bad issue with “selfish self interest” OK! hmmm too simple you might say? Or what do you mean? Well one honest thing to look at is that every illness we have in our society and the world is caused because “someone is profitting from it!” Why are ppl dying of aids and hunger or why is one human being feeling that the only way to get a better life is by selling sex? Its not like there isnt enough food or drugs, or money to go around? They die, or go hungry or sell themselves because they cant afford the food or drugs, or dont have enough money to create the chance to change there lives! Its too easy
“lol sorry ran out of space) cont: its to easy to blame corporations or the rich for there self interest, when the problem runs universal in each individual lives. We can solve poverty, hunger, etc if we want to but its not profitable or in ppls self interest” Who really wants to give up shopping for comfort goods from corporations who make millions of dollars of profit, but pay there employees min wage? Or who wants to get rid of a little of the creature comforts, so the other half can live? So whatever political stance or moral high ground argument we make its business as usual and its bullshit! And that the bottom line!
Your entire blog post, “Dear Sexpat: An Open Letter to Sex Tourists
Everywhere ‹ TravelSexLife” was in fact worth writing a comment here!
Merely wished to mention you really did a very good work.
Many thanks -Genia
The assumptions and conclusions of this editorial are so obviously wrong that I scarcely know where to start. Legal prostitution has little to do with trafficking in sex slaves. This applies in Europe and Nevada as much as it does in Thailand and The Philippines. The women (and men) who work in places with a regulated sex trade generally have a good idea about what they are getting into, and they are free to leave. I find it curious that the writer mentions Thailand and Brazil but not Germany or The Netherlands or Nevada. Perhaps because the idea of people choosing to be sex workers in prosperous countries does not fit a paradigm that assumes that people have no other economic option. Forced prostitution is tied to other criminal enterprises like drug trafficking, human trafficking and smuggling. If you buy heroin, cocaine, endangered species on the black market, ivory, diamonds from a war torn country, or items from a factory that uses slave labor then you do support forced prostitution to some extant. In the US, forced prostition is closely tied to criminal organizations who traffic undocumented workers into the country. Phoenix has the highest rate of kidnappings and trafficking in sex slaves in the country. This is closely tied to the same criminal enterprises that move drugs and people across the Mexican border, and not to the Bunny Ranch. I have been to Pattaya several times. Forced prostitution does not exist there for the same reason that there is no illegal gambling in Las Vegas. Why would anyone risk doing something illegal when there are legal establishments all around. I have had a few on-going relationships with “bar girls.” None of them were forced to work in bars, and all were free to leave. Most alternated between working in bars and non-sex related work in restaurants or factories. If Ms. Mark finds “sexpats” distasteful that her right, but there is a big difference between distasteful and evil.
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Great article. Heading over for 3 months of banging. Ps it’s not a hundred dollars a night. Research girl I pay $25 tops and only for a hunny . So much cheaper than buying a wife in Australia.